Friday, October 18, 2013

How To Be a Good Christian

Today's topic sounds a bit pretentious doesn't it? Well,  I certainly don't claim to know the secret to "good Christianity"  but over the years I've learnt that there are some qualities that are absolutely necessary in order to have any chance at succeeding as a Christian.  So here they are:

1. Determination - From the first day that you make a decision to follow Christ there will be opposition, naysayers, mockers and more.  If you want to make it past the first day, week or year then you need to be determined and sure that this is the decision that you want to make.  People will mock you,  laugh at you and remind you of your past. Now it's the time to be strong headed if there ever was one. Be determined that no one will change your mind with their lofty arguments, mocking or jeering. 

2. Persistence and Perseverance - This is closely linked to point number 1 but slightly different.  The Christian life can be fun, eye opening, joy giving and much more but it can also be very hard.  You will have moments when you fall, make a mistake and feel like giving up.  Don't.  You will find every ounce of strength that you need to make it in the Holy Spirit.  From the very beginning,  learn to depend on Him. It will come in very handy in those difficult times. 

3. A thick skin - One thing that always amazes me is this: the world thinks that they can do whatever they want to us or  say whatever they want about us and we shouldn't do anything about it because our Bible says to turn the other cheek.  As a Christian,  you will be lied to,  lied about,  hated for no reason,  ridiculed etc,  etc, etc.  Learn to let things slide off your back. If you spend your time worrying about every little thing someone does or says about you,  you won't have time for anything else.  Also note that even among your fellow Christians there will be people who hurt you for no reason.  Learn to look past that and forgive.  You'll find that you are a stronger person for it. 

4. Discipline - This one is a biggie.  Christianity is about following rules and our rules are clearly written down in sixty-six books.  Following rules requires lots of discipline so now is the time to learn some.  Forget all the rebellious ways of your past where you questioned every rule because what God says will never change.  Learn to trust that his rules are for your own benefit because they are.  Good discipline will keep you out of trouble.  Try fasting,  I've found that exercising control over the body helps to control the mind. 

5. Devotion/Faithfulness - Above all things,  stay true to God.  Remain faithful.  Don't get bored or slack with your Christianity and don't compromise.  Pay attention to your spiritual link with God.  If you do,  you will notice when it starts to fade.  Nurture your relationship actively.  Feed it,  set time aside for it and make it your number one priority.  You'll find that it is a lot easier to know what God wants from you and to hear His voice if you are constantly listening for it. 

I do hope that these tips helped somebody today.  Be blessed and have a successful day. 


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1 comment:

  1. Thanks mel... this is uplifting and very informative. Will put them into practice.

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